Showing posts with label hubby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hubby. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

12 Years!


This past Sunday my wonderful husband and I celebrated 12 years of wedded bliss! I'm so thankful for our marriage, I'm thankful for him, and I'm thankful that we've had 12 healthy, happy years together. On Monday we went out to one of my favorite restaurants to celebrate. My Mom was gracious enough to watch the girls for us. It was a perfect evening.

I love you hon!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

A Week for Giving Thanks

It sometimes seems to me that we feel like we have to have something special to be thankful for ... like just saying 'family' or 'friends' or 'my home' is just too simple and generic. But honestly, those are the things that we most often take for granted, right? The things that are there for us day after day without fail, the things that so often get overlooked because they are such a constant in our lives.

So this week I'm not trying to come up with any fancy words or special reasons to be thankful ... I'm choosing to remember to thank the Lord for the most important things in my life. I'll be focusing on one thing/person each day.

Today (and everyday) I am so, so thankful for my wonderful husband. His name is Robert, we call him Bob, or Daddy or honey. =) He is someone who loves to live life. He's more concerned with making memories, than making money. Don't get me wrong, he's no slacker! He's a hard worker at his job, where he often wins "Employee of the Month" and his co-workers and bosses are always impressed with his work ethic and the way they know they can always count on him.

He works hard here in our home too. He loves to keep our yard and everything outside looking great so most days you'll find him working in the yard, cleaning up leaves or working on the pool (in the summer). He also runs most of the errands that need to be done around here. I do the groceries and CVS most of the time - but he does the bank, the dump, and anything else that comes up. He also helps a lot around the inside of the house. I think the only job he never does is clean the bathroom ... other than that he helps out with everything else from laundry to dishes to vacuuming ... he always seems to be on the move and working on something.

All of this is extremely helpful for me. Since we homeschool and I'm busy with the girls most of the time our house sometimes gets neglected and it's hard for me to 'do-it-all'. Having his helping hands around is wonderful.

As a husband he never ceases to amaze me. I'll admit, I'm not the easiest person to live with. I get grumpy and moody sometimes when I'm tired - but he never gets upset and he never snaps at me, even when he might be really tired too. I also love to change things around - all the time! I love to move around furniture, paint rooms and rearrange things. A lot of times that means he gets roped into helping me - but he never complains! He always lets me do whatever I want with the house and helps me move things or paint when I get myself involved in a project that's just a bit too much for me.

As a Dad he is absolutely amazing. He has so much patience and so much energy with the girls. He does everything he can to make their lives fun and wonderful. he takes them biking and fishing and even takes one with him on errands if he knows I'm having a rough day. Just because he knows that it will help me out, and that the girls also love being with him, even if it is just running to the bank. When he wakes up in the morning one of the first things he says is 'tell the girls to come see me' -- he loves to snuggle with them first thing in the morning, he can't wait to see them each day! I love the bond that he has already created with his girls. They adore him and will do anything with him, even if it's just watching football for hours on a Sunday - they will sit and watch with him and cheer for the team he likes because they adore him that much.

When I said earlier that he's more concerned with making memories than making money I was serious. He would rather spend money on taking us all on a wonderful vacation in which we create lasting memories, than to buy a new fridge, or something else for the house. He loves to take us all on vacations and loves to create traditions and memories that will last a lifetime. Those are the incredible things that our kids will remember someday - they won't remember what kind of fridge we had when they were 5 years old. But they will remember how much fun we had on that trip to the indoor waterpark!

My sort of 'family motto' has been 'creating family traditions and memories since 1996' ... and I'm SO thankful that Bob is just as focused as I am about making those memories and traditions for our kids. I am so thankful for him. Next week will be our 12th wedding anniversary and each year I love him even more.



Friday, October 24, 2008

My week - day six

Day six - Saturday. I love a quiet, lazy Saturday morning! Saturday is the one day when I allow the girls to watch cartoons when they get up in the morning. This gives me plenty of un-interupted quiet time ... alone. (well of course I have my Bible, journal, books, and COFFEE!)
After that I check my email and favorite blogs ...
And start some loads of laundry ...
H had a noon soccer game so we head out to the field. Bob works some Saturdays so unfortunately he couldn't watch the game. His parents usually come though. This is before the game -
H did great and even scored a goal at this game! We were hootin' and hollerin' - we were so proud!
After the game the girls and I had some errands to run. We ran home to change and grab a PB sandwich for the road and then headed out. One errand stop was the consignment shop to look for winter stuff for the girls - we had some success and were happy about the prices ...
Later that afternoon the girls played outside while I cleaned house ...
Then they came in to help me bake some cookies!
My little helper wearing an apron that I used to wear as a child!
This is what happens when you run out of flour while making cookies - they go FLAT! Oh well, they still tasted good!
Then I browned up a big double batch of ground beef. Might as well cook the extra now and save time later.
We usually wait until Bob gets home to have dinner. Sometimes the girls eat earlier but this night we all wanted to eat together so we could have TACOS, one of our family's favorites!
After the kids were in bed I really wanted to scrapbook ... but first I had to fold some more clothes ...
Then I could get busy scrappin' ...
And I know this is the first time I've mentioned it - but I always end my night by reading. Even if I stay up way too late and am totally zonked, I always read a little. It helps me wind down and get sleepy.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Our completed Summer Reading List

I am so proud to share our completed summer reading list with you. I have to say that I was most impressed by my hubby and my daughter H this summer. I admit that I lacked in reading enough books to J (I know, I'm a bad Mom!) ... and also that although I had big intentions for all the books that I wanted to read - I just couldn't keep my eyes open long enough to get through that many!

We were so busy this summer, doing so many fun things, that by evening I was barely getting through one or two pages before I'd fall asleep!

Bob, on the other hand, suddenly became a reader this summer, and since he's a night owl anyway he was able to fly through 7 books since June!

H, my awesome little bookworm, sped through 20 chapter books this summer!!!!! 20!! Isn't she amazing?!

I only completed 3 books, and have 3 that are still ongoing. Oh well, I'm so proud of my family doing so well!

All together we read 48 books this summer. It's not even one per day when you break it down, but I still think that it's pretty good considering how busy we were! I'm going to post our list here and then start a new fall reading list. So keep watching for that!

Here is our complete list (Bob's books have a #, mine have ** and the rest were the girls choices.):


Summer Reading 2008

  • # Gumbo Limbo by Tom Corcoran
  • Schnitzel is Lost
  • Who's Making that Mess?
  • Junie B. Jones has a Peep in her Pocket
  • Junie B. First Grader Boss of Lunch
  • ** Like Dandelion Dust by Karen Kingsbury
  • Junie B. First Grader Shipwreck
  • Junie B. First Grader Boo and I mean it!
  • A new Duck
  • It's Not Easy Being a Bunny
  • # Swine Not?
  • # Sail
  • # Step on a Crack
  • # 4th of July
  • # Beach Road
  • # Uncas of the Mohegan-Pequot
  • Midnight on the Moon from the M T series
  • Sunset of the Sabertooth from the M T series
  • Afternoon on the Amazon from the M T series
  • Night of the Ninjas from the M T series
  • ** The Postcard by Beverly Lewis
  • The Moon Jumpers
  • Mr. Peabody's Apples
  • Junie B. First Grader One Man Band
  • Junie B. Jones is a party animal
  • Junie B. Jones is (almost) a flower girl
  • **50 Veteran Homeschoolers Share ... Things We Wish We'd Known
  • **On Every Side by Karen Kingsbury
  • Junie B. Jones and that Meanie Jim's Birthday
  • Junie B. Jones and the Yucky Blucky Fruitcake
  • Pirates Past Noon from the M T series
  • Mummies in the Morning from the M T series
  • The Knight At Dawn from the M T series
  • Dinosaurs Before Dark from the Magic treehouse series
  • Amelia Bedelia
  • Fidgety Fish
  • Junie B. Jones has a Monster Under her Bed
  • Ten Little Fish
  • Stanley, Flat Again!
  • **Coming Home by David Lewis
  • Unicorn Wings
  • The Crayon Box that Talked
  • Frederick
  • Moose's Loose Tooth
  • One Hungry Cat
  • Fancy Nancy at the Museum
  • Junie B. Jones Loves Handsome Warren
  • **The Power of a Positive Mom by Karol Ladd

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Book List Additions

My hubby has never liked to read. In all his adult life he's read only a small handful of books, and they were all related to a sports figure that he liked.

I've been trying to encourage him for years that he should try reading right before bed. He always has trouble falling asleep and I told him that reading helps relax you and take your mind off your day.

So this summer he's finally decided to start reading ... and he's gone CRAZY!!! He is flying through books so fast that I can't even keep up with him! I love, love, love to read ... but often fall asleep after only a page or two. Bob on the other hand is wide awake at night, and has been flying through book after book every night!

I am so proud of my honey! He has really gotten into the books by James Patterson and even went to the book barn the other day to pick up a bunch more books.

So far this summer he has read:
Uncas of the Mohegan-Pequot {A historical book about Bob's tribe.}
Beach Road by James Patterson
Step on a Crack by James Patterson
4th of July by James Patterson
Sail by James Patterson
Swine Not by Jimmy Buffett

And I'm still working my way through The Postcard by Beverly Lewis ... =)
I'm going to add Bob's books to our summer reading list. His books will get # next to them so you know who's reading what.

Friday, August 15, 2008

Weekend Vacation

A couple weeks ago Bob and I had the fantastic opportunity to go away for the weekend ... with some friends ... with NO kids!! Our friends have a time share condo that was right on the water. It was incredible! The condo was beautiful, it had fabulous views, was within walking distance of hundreds of shops and restaurants, and was surrounded by water, harbors and gorgeous yachts. It was amazing.

Jake and Samantha are our friends who invited us. They don't have any kids yet ... but are expecting their first in the new year. So the four of us got to be adults and have a fun weekend with no kids. =) (Don't get me wrong, I love my kids, but getting a break is sometimes nice!)

It was gorgeous. There is so much to do and see there. There was no way we would have come close to seeing it all in the 2 days we were there. And you might think we'd try to cram in as much sightseeing as we could ... but instead, we simply sat in the sun by the pool for most of the time!! Well, we did walk around the shops and go out to some pretty cool restaurants too, but most of our time was by the pool. Total relaxation!

Looking out our bedroom window on one side of the condo we could see this ...

This is the condo building we stayed in ... Looking out the deck on the other side of the condo we could see these views ... This is a view of the pool area taken from the rooftop ... And another one of the pool area where you can see the harbor right there on the left ... More amazing yachts ... makes ya wonder who owns these boats and what they do for a living??



This is what we did most of the time ...
Right here next to the pool, which overlooked the harbor ...
Jake and Sam ... Bob taking a dive ... On the rooftop, you can see the bridge in the background ...
More rooftops photos ...
Sam and Jake ...

At the a cool Pub for dinner - YUM!

Thanks so much Jake and Sam! We had such a great time with you!

Friday, July 4, 2008

An amazing 'date'.

This past Tuesday my honey and I were able to 'get away' for the day to visit an amazing Island. It's a small island off the coast. We have been there countless times before, but that was years ago, before we had kids. So my in- laws were gracious enough to watch the girls for the day so we could escape for the day together.

We took the high speed ferry early morning. The fog was so dense that you couldn't even see the ferry dock once the boat had pulled away from it. It was a little unnerving to be going SO fast through the thick fog. Every time the boat blew it's horn I knew there were other boats in it's way and inwardly cringed just waiting for us to hit! Overall it was a smooth ride, but I tend to get seasick so I insisted we sit outside, and facing forward. Towards the end my tummy was feeling a little queasy, but thankfully I made it without getting sick. Here is my 'not-so-happy-I-need-to-get-off-this-boat-face'.
When we arrived we decided to rent a JEEP for the day! It was so much fun. Bob has been wanting to purchase a jeep for a while now, so it was a good chance to try it out. It was great and we had a lot of fun.The first beach we stopped at had lots of beautiful starfish! I wanted so badly to take a couple home for the girls and let them dry out but my wise hubby thought that was kind of cruel since they were still alive. So we left them there. This beach was gorgeous, surrounded by beautiful cliffs, with white sandy beaches ... just breathtaking!OHHH, my fave ... beautiful, bright blue Hydrangeas!! {Mine STILL won't bloom!!}This beach is was gorgeous. The view from the top just takes your breath away. You have to climb down 150 stairs to get down to the beach ... no problem ... until you have to climb back UP them! Whew, I was sucking wind for sure! Awesome waves at the beach ...Bob, reading up on local history ... did you know that there are no squirrels on the Island?? =) Relaxing on the beach... {I think this is where I got too much sun, which I'm still hurting from!}YAY! A real smile from my honey! This is a rare occurrence for Mr. Braces! I just love this picture. If you can't already tell, we had SO much fun together! The old Lighthouse ... it might have a more official name, but I'm not sure, and since it's on the south shore we'll just refer to it as the south lighthouse.
Another beach, right near the ferry boat landing. Right before this I started having serious hot flashes which almost resulted in a meltdown {{I was hot, sweaty, sticky and couldn't get cool anywhere}}... thankfully hubby is very patient with me and we sat and had a cold, refreshing drink which helped me tremendously. Then we swam in those huge waves which were COLD, but invigorating. I felt much cooler after that. Bob looked down right as I snapped this photo, bummer because the wave behind him was perfect! I loved the huge waves and crystal clear water, with NO seaweed!
Then we dried off and took a stroll around downtown, stopping to pick up a couple little souvenirs for the girls and grabbing a quick bite to eat before we had to get back on the ferry.
Here is the back view of the high speed ferry. I love that catamaran style, it's so cool! It looks much smaller than it really is, it holds a few hundred people. See that tiny little outdoor area on top? That is where I had to sit, I cannot sit inside!
When we were almost back to our home port we saw TWO of our Navy's submarines out in the water. One was heading out to sea, the other heading home. It was so cool to see them up close in the water.

The next day Bob said to me, "that was one of the most fun days I have had in a long time!" I consider myself so blessed to have a hubby that I can have so much fun with. I am also so thankful for my in laws who watched the girls so we could have this time together. Can't wait to do it all again!

As a quick side note ... I think it's SO crucial in a marriage to make time for one another. No matter what stage of marriage you are in, with kids or without, you have to make time to do special things together. There have been times when our kids were young, or sick, or plans just didn't go right ... when we have had to simply stay home and play scrabble together. That's OK. Just making time for each other is what's important. My brother in law and sister in law have decided that they will try to watch as many sunsets together as they can this summer. I think that's an amazing goal! Especially for couples with kids, you have to plan times to do things without your children from time to time. It's good for you and it's great for your marriage. Anyway, that's just my two cents! =)